Women Respect Only One Thing: Assholes
It's a phrase that is thrown around constantly, especially in Your Professor's direction: "You have to respect women!" Oh really? What exactly does that even mean?
- Put up with their shit? You know, like when they say one thing and then contradict it 20 seconds later? Or when they expect you to pay for anything and everything while telling you that they expect to be treated equally? Or when they lie about being on birth control and then later, when they get pregnant, want to know if you'll be "man enough to step up?"
- Do what they tell you? Like when to take out the garbage or who you can be friends with? How late you can stay out without checking in with Headquarters? What you should wear and what is wrong with what you are wearing?
- Listen to them bitch? Pay attention to their complaining about what you do and how you are and where you go? Complaining about what magazines you read or what websites you visit? How many people are trying like hell to finish this sentence only to have to her some bitch shrieking, "How long are you going to be playing with your computer?"
- Always correctly guess what is bothering them and then find a way to fix it? Accept responsibility for things you never did just to shut them the fuck up? Remember every anniversary of everything that ever happened? Your first date? Your first fuck? The day you two signed up with Netflix? To breezily accept the consequences of forgetting such "special days?"
- To accept that you are always, always, always wrong? And that you're a piece of shit?
Is that what women mean by saying that they "need to be respected?"
Stop worrying about respecting women. Women don't want to be respected. They want to be taken. They love being treated like shit and they come back for it time and time again.
Remember those nights that some chick kept you up late telling you about what an asshole her ex-boyfriend was? There's one thing that asshole got that you have never gotten and may never get: her pussy! Over and over! Hundreds if not thousands of times! "He was such a rude bastard. Such an asshole! And, as a result, the next time I am having sex is on my wedding night!" That's been you listening to that bullshit late at night at least once, hasn't it? Hoping that she will respect you enough to let you be her next boyfriend one day? And going home with blue balls? Yep, that has been you!
Are your parents divorced? Never forget that your mother told That Asshole (your father) that she was spreading her legs and it was time to stick it in, and not to worry about condoms because you "can't get pregnant" after just one time unprotected. In most cases in America, you are here only because your mom couldn't get enough sex from an asshole. Haven't you ever made the connection?
It is time for you to be the asshole women complain about to the next poor guy, and not to end up being the poor guy who has to hear about the previous asshole. When chicks threaten to tell their friends about you, just remember: it pays to advertise! Who's a bigger, more well-known asshole than Your Professor?
Time reach inside to find your inner asshole and stop worrying about being "more respectful to women." And never forget: your divorced Mom is on Match.com right now tarting herself up so she can find the NEXT asshole..
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Alright........ I Gots First Crack At Dat Azz!!!!!
Look who's back on the market!!!!
http://news.yahoo.com/jennifer-lopez-marc-anthony-split-214003835.html
Three time divorced, single mother of two with ass for days.. Oh wait.... no single mothers...............
Cot dayum.....
Time go hit a club or two and get my grove on!!!
Just like professor says: "For every hot woman out there, there's a guy who's tired of fucking her."
One of the best sayings
Behind every man there is a woman telling him he's WRONG!
Only when your with a bitch!
Only when your with a bitch! Believe it or not there are women that admit being wrong boys!
Not so agreeable, here
Actually, Tom, I have to disagree with you a little on this one.
Yeah, women don't roll over for doormats. Wimpy guys who let women run the show are nothing more than pawns to most women.
I mean, a man who lets a woman run his life and decide everything for him is no different than a car salesman who shows a client a car and says: "I don't know about this vehicle. Here's a list of the problems that could occur with it. I dunno, what do you think? Is it a good car?"
That's not how you sell a car!
You step up and say: "This is the best muthaf*cking car in the world!" and then you tell them why. You don't show them every little thing wrong with the car. You are trying to impress somebody and make a sale. You tell them everything right with the car.
That said, yeah men who are doormats are everything but sexy.
But you don't have to be a jerk to get a woman. You just have to be confident and not put up with any sh*t. You don't let her control your life, but you don't treat her like trash either.
Why are you encouraging men to treat women like sh*t, Tom?
That's not the only way to get a woman, and I as a woman sure don't appreciate beating treated that way. And for clarification, if a man treated me that way, it would make me want to do anything but sleep with him.
Breaking news!
I got news for you honey. Your reasoning has at least one faw and a major one at that. When on a date we do not try to sell SH*T. NOOOO! We men are the buyers not the sellers! Can you understand that? ... Can you conceptualise it? If we had to use your comparison 'she' is the used car saleman (woman). Cause guess what! Chances are she has been used before, over and over. That's right! Lots of milage on that old clunker.
Our job, as the buyers, is to spend as little as possible and close the deal as quickly as possible. Also we have to look for those red flags, like rust or a huge dent that has been neatly covered up. Us 101 students do not buy things that come with extra bagage, do not give into unreasonable childish demands, or childish behaviour, or feisty for that matter, we like sexy femminine chicks not tomboys.
If we don't like what you have to sell or feel that you are being unreasnable with your demands we will move on to the next showroom.
Being an asshole accomplishes two things (hitting two birds with one stone as they say). 1. It rules out anyone woman who is going to act like a bitch, saves us time, money and energy. 2. It shows her right from the start that we are money, that we are unchangable and that we are not going to put up with her nonsense and emotional garbage, that's her friends' job not ours.
What a Deceptive B*tch you are!
Oh, this is an all-too- Americunt Skkkankkk pathology we got here! So she'd rather be lied to & hear good stuff then be told the truth!
Sorry but Americunt Skkkkankkkks need to be treated like crap: (1) Put on ice (2) Be unreliable (3) Littered with back-handed compliments (4) Be knows they can be replaced (5) They are not that important & that their Vagina is not the golden vagina!
Nothing but the whole truth...
Tom has said nothing but the whole truth here. Nice guys get played, bad boys get laid.
You know the old saying 'actions speak louder than words'? Well, this is another classic example. Many (NOT ALL) women will SAY they want a nice guy who is respectful, loving, caring, open the doors for them, and all the other BS they'll spout. But who do they give the ass to 99.99999999% of the time? The bad boy who never calls, doesn't allow them to move in, who doesn't compromise poker night with the boys to cuddle with her while watching some crappy dance show on FOX are the same ones bending their naked asses over couches every weekend. Then they go crying about how bad their asshole of a BF treats them despite the BJs and giving him sex 8 times a day to the, you guessed it, nice guy who'll never get to find out whether they're shaved or not.
If a nice guy's reward is to one day get the former dimepiece who is now well past her prime and to help raise the three kids she had with some ex who dumped her on her ass, who'll never respect him because they know that he's only the substitute teacher, I'll take being an asshole all day long. Nice guys should know that they'll never, EVER match up to the guy who gave her the best 35 minutes of her life back in 1998. Truth be told, if she was ever to find that guy who gave her four orgasms on Facebook or MySpace, that's the dude she'll be screwing the next time he's in town. Book it...
Be an Asshole... Get MORE Pussy!
I was, for much too long, the "Nice Guy" who "finished last", as the saying goes. After years of practically waiting around for the 'right girl', not actively going out to get 'her' I did one of the worst things possible, I "settled" for what I had. Not having the balls be more of a 'Man'. I got married and immediately this bitch I called my wife just walked all over me, ten times worse than she had ever done before. It gets worse, I ALLOWED it, she was my "wife"...
Jumping ahead... I had one crystal clear thought months later, "she wasn't worth it...", now the problem was I had to TOTALLY believe that... I was to "nice" to totally believe that 'crystal clear' thought, but I eventually got out of it.
To deal with her at times I had to be hard and, well an "Asshole". I feel better about myself, and got what I wanted.
In the years following the divorce, I started to be more of an "Asshole"... I was getting more pussy than ever before. I had to, at times, take days off from 'the pussy' to get me rest!!! But the chicks would call and 'bitch' and want to see me, and then would give me more!
A decade later, I'm getting married again. I'm a different person, a 'Man'. I'm getting married to a hot little Asian girl I met and started dating once, but she was playing mind games. I blew her off and forgot about her. I YEAR later I looked her up again, and she 'bitched' about how I just was an "Asshole" to her and how NO guy had EVER done that to her, and how she could not forget it!
4+ years into the relationship, and I've softened a bit, but I am NOT conpromising, NOR "settling". Not again. I'm not who I was before. Now I'm a confident "Asshole" at times, and I get to tag my hot little Asian pussy WHENEVER and WHEREVER I want... and the longer, and harder I do, the more she likes it and the more she wants it!
My kind of girl!
No more Mr. Nice Guy
I'm not hating man...do your thing. I don't fawn over or kiss women's ass...this has served me well.
Nice Guys DON'T FINISH LAST!!!
They don't start at all!!
WWTS?
If you ever really listened to Tom, you would NEVER consider marriage again!!!! FOOL
Read More Carefully His Comment!
He is in a relationship of 4+ years with an Asian chick, who is either from another country, born in another country or subscribes to the culture of the asian country her parents come from. Tom Always said, never get married or get into a relationship with anyone, but if you have to get into a relationship with anyone or marry anyone:
(1) Make sure it's not an Americunt Skkkankkk.
(2) You two arrange & sign a prenuptial agreement.
Perhaps you should reads "Tom's Tip of The Day" where he talk about guys who live in multi-cultural metropolitians should avoid Americunt Skkkankkks all together. And the all the guys who are either in a relationship or married to a foregin girl and are very very happy about it.
Don't forget with Asian Chicks & Latin American Chicks, Eastern European Chicks, even North African Chicks who are not drinking the kool-aid of Americunt Skkkankkks = Being a 150 pounds is un acceptable let alone 180 pounds & over, unless they are 6'1 and above without high heels they can weigh 150 pounds, Short Butch Dykkke hair is a big no no, Ugg Boots are piece of sh*t footwear, and they do cook & clean, and sex? Anytime any place.
It's the Americunt Skkkankkk feminazi misandrists that need pumping & dumbing (with a cameras & witnesses), because deep down inside they are man hating lesbians to begin with, they just wanna have sex with you in the hopes of trying to see if they can get their hands on your money, either through a baby, or a fase rape accusation. 50% of the rape allegations americunt skkkankkks make are false. Doesn't matter if they are pig skinned Americunt Skkkankkks, or Oreo Cookie Americunt Skkkankkk who want to get on their slave masters pedestal like Oprah has-- samething!
Lastly if there is anyone that hasn't seen a really good Leykis Movie I highly recommend "Diaries of a Tired Black Man". Even though the film maker speaks of American Black men & their dilema & issues with Oreo Cookie Americunt Skkkankkks, I think it's a film all American men can relate to as they deal with Americunt Skkkankkks.
things that make you go hmmmmm
Soooooo I'm assuming this is why men marry and love bitches too....lol a bitch is never I say never a bad thing.... ;)
Not quite...
...because it is her hotness, not her bitchiness, that we are attracted to.
That hot women tend to be bitches is normal and to be expected. They have to suss out the pussies and nice guys and get to the real men, so they act like bitches. It is biologically driven and does work, so I don't blame them.
Actually they are quite nice!
Actually Hot Women are not that dificult to approach & talk to, and they're not as bitchy as people think they are. I'll tell you who is bitchy, the uglies, the fatties & fuglies, oh boy do they give guys are hard time & boy do they love to search for pussies & nice guys so they can be as bitchy to them as possible. Maybe some of the hot women you're talking about who are bitchy the the hot ones who are soon to be fatty, fugly or ugly, as in once they get the super bowl championship ring they get fat, fugly & ugly -- ah yeah, the fatties, fuglies & Uglies & the fatties fuglies & uglies to be are very bitchy! LOL
Another thing, I don't think Hot women get hit on all the time as much people think they do, maybe by real men, but by guys in general not really, because most guys are intimidated by Hot Women.
Very True about ASShole ville
This is very accurate and what happens with these emotionall narcissitic women. They are money grabbers even if it means getting and trapping with a kid or two so they can sit around all day long and get their nails done quaff their smelly bush shaved by some asian monk wimp and get their car washed.. they are truly lost people
throw them a way like a towel and move on! Listen carefully if they like their dad you might have a chance ...but if they hate their dad ...run! go gay but do not stick it in them anywhere
let some one else pay the daddy bill (the relationship they never had with their dad) with their therapist and their botox estitcian
when did tip of the day
when did tip of the day become tip of the month, lets keep it rollin dad!!
Been on the road working...
Your Professor has been on the road...at Crushpad in the Napa Valley...doing the final blend on his 2008 Pedal to the Metal Syrah! Soon, it will be available. And now, Your Professor has returned...
a question from Romania
You're 100% correct regarding womens' overly increased
lust for mean men, but i have one question! I for one, I'm sick to the stomack when i look at these sick bitches and i can't find the motivation to do anything with my life. I'm an engineer in my 20s, and i try to struggle to build power and fame ,but what is the point when my i-thought-women-were-perfect-caring-and-loving-with-nice-guys Syndrome hasn't gone away in three years of meeting sexy sluts, whores (Romanian videochat whores) and nice, cute-and-a-little-chunky but hard to get a hard-on chicks? I perfectly understand their psychology but i can't get over it! HELP! It makes me sad to see that women are the way they are? My father is a hard working man but had no father so he couldn't teach me anything. My life has been plagued by bad women and i feel like I'm missing life when i see some of my friends with girlfriends and being loved! WHY THE FUCK DO NICE GUYS GOT TO SUFFER? They've developed techology, science, medicine in order for some stupid shit bad boy neanderthal to screw his women! Its not right Tom! A few words would help me father!
Glad to have you back, Dad
The world has become a dark place in your absence. A friend of mine has become a total pussy, dating a single mother, babysitting her kids, ditching the guys on Saturday night to take her to a movie... I'm about ready to fill an mp3 player full of old Leykis 101 shows and give him an early birthday present.
awesome dad! cant wait to
awesome dad! cant wait to hear your voice on the gary and dino show. gotta hold a class its been a while
Father,
No truer words have ever been spoken! I too have seen this personally.It's a universal-nation wide thing.My BF is a girl (yes,I know,it's not like that). All I hear about is how much of an asshole her kid's father is ,and has always been. He cheats,disapears,etc,etc,etc. Yet,she stays with him . I think she loves the drama and tension. I just don't get it.
asshole
a worthless and annoying person. Yea, that fits you and your kind!
Bitch
Truth is a bitch uh?, but then again I guess so are you and that is the reason why you are upset?
Damn Tom, we got trolls!
Damn Tom, we got trolls!
Sounds Like YOU!
We get into the habit of living before acquiring the habit of thinking. Camus
Asshole for rent ?
I'm a copywriter for an ad agency.(or radio talent) It involves being a total asshole. I do it for the money, it's easy and horrible. I do nothing good for society.
As quoted in The Great Divide, book 1, section 5, by Studs Terkel (1988).
You do like assholes
O my friends, can there be an extravagance to equal that of imagining that a man must be a monster deserving to lose his life because he has preferred enjoyment of the asshole to that of the cunt, because a young man with whom he finds two pleasures, those of being at once lover and mistress, has appeared to him preferable to a young girl, who promises him but half as much! He shall be a villain, a monster, for having wished to play the role of a sex not his own! Indeed! Why then has Nature created him susceptible of this pleasure?
Ah, Marquis de Sade! The
Ah, Marquis de Sade! The world's first verbal pornographer
LOL! You're lost & Bitter!
LOL! You're lost & Bitter!
Respect one mans view
"I have certainly known more men destroyed by the desire to have wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots." [William Butler Yeats, "Autobiography"]
ashole 101
Tom, what some specific things we can do or say to be assholes?
El Capo
El Capo run, fast, never visit this site again!
God Bless the child who has his own!
Evaluate yourself!
Evaluate yourself! I mean if being an asshole is not in your nature, and deep down you feel like you are a nice guy, sit & think about what are somethings YOU WILL NOT TOLERATE! You value yourself too much that you will not tolerate it. What are somethings that NO MATTER WHAT YOU WILL NOT TOLERATE FROM WOMEN? Put up your boundaries and make sure Women do not cross the line, and Enforce it with Authority. Just remember these 2 rules: (1) Who cares what she thinks! --- Stop thinking for her, you're not in her head, and stop thinking for her. (2) You are the most important person in the relationship. (Whatever type it might be from booty call, to a Call girl, to a Wife). Just remember a lot of "assholes" are called "assholes" by other women & by the "nice guys" who get frustrated that they can't get any pussy. They are not assholes in the sense that they are assholes or arrogant or they are not humble people or bad people or charletons, many "assholes" & "bad-boys" are in fact honest humble good nice people, but they get called assholes because THEY ARE FIRM ON WHAT THEY WANT & WHAT THEY WILL NOT PUT UP WITH.
Re: Evaluate yourself
Nice point. Look at yourself and decide what you need. I have a rule. No! A law. The Law of Reciprocity states: If I am not receiving it back, stop giving it. This is independent of how I feel. Have you ever given too much and ended up feeling like a sucker? This law will stop that. Now take it a step farther. What do you need? Well kindly demand it! Politely demand it. This is nothing more than understanding your value and making others appreciate you. Next; you have to execute. You have to uphold the Law. If the person is not holding up their end they must be warned or dispatched. Be grown-up and do it with a smile. State the reason confidently to show you are not pretending to love and value yourself, but you honestly do. Chances are this will negotiate a better term for you in this instance. The confidence you exhibit here will soak the panties and put you in a place of control. Lastly, do not be afraid to be alone for a while. If they are not good enough, they gotta go and another will replace them when it happens. Don't worry about the future and don't worry about being alone for now.
Looks like you get my 2 rules!
Looks like you understand and get my two rules very well:
(1) Who cares what she thinks! --- Stop thinking for her, you're not in her head, and stop thinking for her. (2) You are the most important person in the relationship. (Whatever type it might be from booty call, to a Call girl, to a Wife)
If you really think about it, these are two rules most women carry around with them as well.
When you think about it, it makes so much sense & it's so obvious!
Mr. "Evaluate yourself" gets it
That "Evaluate yourself" was good shit, dude, obviously a guy who understands the deeper principles of Leykis101.
Simply think of all the shit you tolerated , and in hindsight, ask yourself was it worth it.
HELL NO.
You can't make anyone happy no matter how much money you spend or how far you put yourself in harms way and sacrifice, in the end, its never worth it.
Be who you want to be, do what makes you comfortable and happy, and if they don't like , tell them to fuck off, in fact, the sooner they show their displeasure, the quicker you can move on and not waste TIME, MONEY and SANITY.
If you think back, most chicks don't know , or ever know, what they want, because when they get it, its not what they thought it was and it will not make them happy anyway.
Chicks think they "should" get a nice guy, but when they do, they find out its boring and it does not get their panties wet.
Chicks think they "should" get kids, married, relationship, etc., because it is so cute and sweet, but when they do, they find out its a LOT of work, sleepness nights, flaws, incompatibility and stress...., no , it was not quite like The Brady Bunch/Father Knows Best/Cosby Show/Leave it to Beaver T.V. show, HallMark card , Flower/Diamond/Chocolate commercial, Romeo and Juliet play or Romantic movie said it was going to be.
99% of our concepts of what happiness is is from T.V., Movies, Novels, Commercials, Plays, Fake Dr. Psychologist/Relationship therapist/councilors, and the "front" we see in public of others that we really don't know or see what actually goes on behind the scenes day in & out.
Dudes, get out of The Matrix of illusion of what "they" say happiness really is...., FOR YOU.
Not exactly...
I think that intelligent men realize that television, movies, novels, commercials are all FAKE and not indicative of true happiness. Women are the ones who are enamoured with all of the aforementioned mediums. While men find movies to be entertaining, I doubt very many of them would actually believe that the characters are real. I tend to think that many women actually relate to the characters in a sense that they truly believe, "Oh, Hugh Grant really *is* this cute guy who behaves in a romantic way!" (Or insert any other actor of your choosing. Grant was just a name I threw in.)
Strong and intelligent men don't need social constructs (ie., marriage and children) unless it's truly what *they* want. Strong and intelligent men don't buy into marriage contract that requires them to lose their wealth when it's time to dissolve it. They don't feel any obligation to take care of women or see to it that women are made happy. These men do what's necessary to succeed in life and make themselves happy. These men don't report home to "the boss". Instead, they go their own way and control their own destiny.
In the end it comes down to choosing slavery or freedom. What say you?
I'll evaluate you...
a worthless and annoying person, An Asshole.
I'm sure you call anyone who doesn't back down that!
I'm sure you call the Vendor who will not under any circumstances jack down the price of the product he selling an "asshole" simply because you feel you're entitled to a discount cause you're a gal! I'm pretty sure any male police officer who doesn't give in to your dramatic acting, and has pulled you over because of a violation & gives you a citation you call an "asshole" too because he didn't fall for you BS drama acting & your BS stories to talk him out of giving you a ticket.
Interesting...
Those exact words could also be used to describe a troll...which would be you.
So true
I look at Leykis 101 as not so much about being an asshole, but more about knowing what you want and what you don't want, and knowing the quickest and easiest way to get there. And along the way, if someone calls me an asshole, they just plain don't get it.
Yup.
Agreed.
Scare shit Tom
Holy shit, this is all true.
My mom does always complain about how much of an asshole my biological father was, and how much she hates him to the date, regardless of having 3 kids with him, all 5 years apart!!!
This is great! Thanks Tom. My
This is great! Thanks Tom. My day is off to an awesome start!
tom i didn't know your a psyic
Because you just described my life, word for word.
Its a rude awakening, isn't it??
I know what you mean: the first time I heard him tell me this over 8 years ago, I literally had to pull over because I thought I was having a heart attack!! I think if my parents told me that they hated me and wished they never would have had me, it would have been LESS painful than to face THIS reality!! It was then that I realized: I AM A HUGE PUSSY!!!!!!!
Well, my life has made a complete 180 since then and I couldn't be happier!!!
I'm Right There With You
I had just left my wife prior to divorcing her when I first listened to Tom. I remember her making some off comment about Tom but I never knew who he was til I left. I left with nothing but suitcases because I came to the same reality - I was a pussy who didn't get any pussy until I snapped and fucked someone else. Of course she pulls the "I'm so innocent, please feel sorry for me", "I'm entitled to your cash and you should pay for selling the house because you left me". Dude, I remember I couldn't even look at my wedding video when I was married because my life with her was the biggest load of shit.
That realization stings brother. Thing is, I said what I was about: Work, fuck, eat, sleep repeat. I got my education an all and stupidly thought if I worked hard enough, I'd be able to ride this out. Classic "ROM/COM - Mars/Venus" advice was "She's emotional and you have to adjust to her"...... While she thinks she's some how entitled to DETERMINE what my needs are, if they're normal and whether or not she fulfills them. Like I said, one day I ended up fucking someone who really did love me and I couldn't stop. I left.. ALL OF IT. Got my degree, my job(s) - hell yeah jobs in this down economy, and literally have women from 5 different continents who'd fuck me at the drop of a hat - as in "save that coochie for me fucking" or "when you coming back my way" kind of shit. Worlds different than the entitlement bullshit these women try to put on.
That .01% that still hang in there for religious reasons are full of it too. Why? The very same JudeoChristian belief system also says that a woman is suppose to respect her husband as head of the house and put out unless both agree to not do so for a brief period of time(Bible thumpers - read 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 if you don't believe me). I went a decade without getting laid and of course the ex wants to sit there pretending to be dumbfounded. Ok I'll just say it - FUCK HER. I'm gone and loving it. I used to feel sorry for women like her. Now I've learned to be much more skeptical. Most of these bitches arrange their own disasters and know full well that very few - save Tom Lekyis and all us 101'ers - would probe deeper.
Let's get real here. Men marry to fuck. Women have refined marriage and relationships - dare it say it - against how the good Lord made it. Result: 100% FUBAR'ed....
Don't give me the "Well women have been abused" bullshit either. Yes it happens. 101'ers don't advocate it. All the same, many of us 101'ers HAVE FUCKED THESE VERY SAME WOMEN WHO WERE ABUSED AND THEY LOVED IT. Hell, SO DID WE!!! My point is, any real woman will rise to the occasion of fucking - even with abuse, kids, jobs, school and illness to deal with. When they wanna fuck, THEY WILL DO IT - WITH GUSTO NO LESS. I've done it with 'em so don't even roll your eyes at me. I don't bullshit like the bitches Tom talks about.
Bottomline: If you ain't there to fuck and be respectful, we as men want nothing to do with you . Period. That includes marriage, relationships and damn, friendship too 'cause I know I'd hate to have a woman with bitchy attitude as friend. She's an annoyance no matter the capacity - even as a co-worker. Bitchy women have no place in my world - not even to clean my closet.
Yes, the father is clairvoyant!
He can predict with 99.99% certainty what will happen to you should you decide to disobey Leykis 101. As for the .01%, well those are the rare exceptions to the rule. Don't be stupid trying to find them like the Midget Mac Zach.
Haha I think the only thing
Haha I think the only thing keeping the .01% together is their religious/spiritual faith and/or ability to understand and establish the principles of social competence