You Are Right and They Are Wrong

Many Leykis 101 students forget the best thing about not being in a relationship: you don't have to put up with anyone's shit!

Take arguing for example. When you are just a fuck buddy, there is no arguing, just an understanding: you both have needs and they shall be fulfilled, whenever, wherever.

When you are in one of those "relationships," you are often arguing constantly. You snore too much, you never help out around the house, all you're interested in is sex, etc. This would never happen if you took Your Professor's advice and refused to let them stay at your place yet, somehow, many of you decide that the arguing is better than always, always, always having things your way. But why?

I, for one, got tired of being told about my inadequacies, my imperfections, and my oversights. Women sap your strength and, if you're not careful, they'll take your self-esteem along, not to mention your paycheck. Nothing bolsters your self-esteem more than telling a chick to get lost or to fuck off.

One ex of mine complained about me constantly. There was nothing more effective than calling her bluff. "If I am so inadequate, why are you still here? There's the door!" I would say, leaving her speechless.  She was speechless because it was true! "If you don't like so many things about me, then get the fuck out," I told her, "and don't ever call me again!" Do you think that she or any of the others ever got out? Not without a crowbar. Nothing gets more respect than telling a chick that you won't put up with her shit and that she can simply go fuck off.

How about the ones who track your every move and who want to know where you are and who you're with all the time? The simple answer to that is, "If you don't trust me, I am not the man for you. Don't do this to yourself. Get out now!" That shuts them up really fast...or, they get the fuck out! Either way, you win!

The bottom line is to absolutely, positively never give them what they want and engage in arguing. Have a zero tolerance policy for debate. You are right and they are wrong. If they don't like it, they should simply get the fuck out.

Are you man enough to put your foot down?